Monthly Archives: May 2013

Teaching children empathy

One of the most fundamental ways to create nonviolent communities is to start early– that is, with early childhood education. Based in Toronto, Seeds of Empathy (http://www.seedsofempathy.org/) is an organization that does exactly that. Their mission, in the words of Founder/President Mary Gordon, is as follows:

Empathy is the ultimate human trait. It is the connective tissue that allows us to realize our shared humanity – our emotions. One of the milestones of the last century was Neil Armstrong’s walk on the moon. He said “that’s one small step for (a) man, one giant leap for mankind.” It is our hope that in this century we will learn to walk in one another’s shoes– empathy.

Working with early childhood educators, Seeds of Empathy uses literacy training as a means of teaching children ages 3-5 to identify feelings in others. They describe their program in this way:

We teach a series of themes, each on a three-week cycle. During the first and second weeks of each cycle, Literacy Coaches (specially-trained staff members from the [Early Childhood Education] Centre) read and discuss books with small groups of children. In the third week, a Family Guide (another specially-trained staff member) hosts a Family Visit, where a baby (two to four months old at the beginning of the course) and his/her parent(s) visit the children in the Centre for half an hour. The Family Guide encourages the children to observe the baby’s development, to label the baby’s feelings, and to talk about their own feelings and those of others.

Seeds of Empathy is an off-shoot of a larger international organization (also based in Toronto) called Roots of Empathy (http://www.rootsofempathy.org/), one that attempts to reduce levels of aggression (eg. bullying) among schoolchildren by increasing empathy and “raising social/emotional competence”. Their experiential approach to education is fascinating, and the following discussion of emotional literacy (found on their website) does a good job at explaining how real-life interaction leads to mental and social growth in children:

At the heart of the program are a neighbourhood infant and parent who visit the classroom every three weeks over the school year. A trained Roots of Empathy Instructor coaches students to observe the baby’s development and to label the baby’s feelings. In this experiential learning, the baby is the “Teacher” and a lever, which the instructor uses to help children identify and reflect on their own feelings and the feelings of others. This “emotional literacy” taught in the program lays the foundation for more safe and caring classrooms, where children are the “Changers”. They are more competent in understanding their own feelings and the feelings of others (empathy) and are therefore less likely to physically, psychologically and emotionally hurt each other through bullying and other cruelties. In the Roots of Empathy program children learn how to challenge cruelty and injustice. Messages of social inclusion and activities that are consensus building contribute to a culture of caring that changes the tone of the classroom. The Instructor also visits before and after each family visit to prepare and reinforce teachings using a specialized lesson plan for each visit. Research results from national and international evaluations of Roots of Empathy indicate significant reductions in aggression and increases in pro-social behaviour.

A fascinating organization, and a very worthwhile endeavour.

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Canadian Empathy Awards

I just found out about these Awards because I’ve recently started following the work of Jo-Anne McArthur (Toronto). She founded the We Animals project (http://www.weanimals.org/), a photographic documentary of contemporary human-animal relationships (it has also been published as a book- below is a photo from the “Animal Fairs” section).

McArthur received the first annual Canadian Empathy Award in the area of “Arts”. See her description of it here: http://www.onegreenplanet.org/lifestyle/celebrating-compassion-the-canadian-empathy-awards/

We Animals was featured in the forthcoming documentary The Ghosts in Our Machine (http://www.theghostsinourmachine.com/), directed by Liz Marshall. Here is what Marshall has to say about the film:

I have made a number of films that have taken me around the globe to witness stark realities, injustice, hope, and to meet inspiring change-makers. I’ve focused primarily on human rights issues, and the environment. Making this film has profoundly tweaked my moral compass – differently.

THE GHOSTS IN OUR MACHINE is a journey of discovery into what is a complex social dilemma. In essence, humans have cleverly categorized non-human animals into three parts: domesticated pets, wildlife, and the ones we don’t like to think about: the ghosts in our machine. Why do we value wildlife and our companion animals but not the billions of animals bred and used by global industries? It is this core question that prompted me to delve deeply and explore this subject matter. The Ghosts In Our Machine  follows acclaimed animal photographer Jo-Anne McArthur over the course of a year – I chose Jo-Anne as the protagonist because her mission is a sympathetic entry-point into the animal question, and her powerful photographs invite us to consider non-human animals as individuals.

As a filmmaker my heart is fully engaged but I am also critically removed, looking through glass – examining the angles, the light and the meaning of the greater story. My greatest desire is to create an experience for audiences, one that inspires consciousness. Through story, sound and picture I hope people will see animals differently – forever.

As consumers we can all make a difference for the ghosts, each and everyday.

For the Ghosts,
Liz
Jo-Anne McArthur has started a humane education program in Toronto– from what I know it is the first of it’s kind in the city. For more information, here is the link: http://www.humaneeducation.ca/why.htm

Salon professionals and domestic violence

This is an absolutely amazing article! It talks about the role that hairstylists can play in helping victims of domestic violence. Many women have close relationships with the men and women they visit regularly for beauty care. As this article explains, it is helpful for these professionals to have resources at hand if their client confides in them about a violent relationship.

WONDERFUL article: http://www.kansas.com/2013/05/13/2799678/salon-professionals-can-be-relief.html

Also, there is a related organization called Cut It Out (http://www.cutitout.org/).

They are:

a program of the Salons Against Domestic Abuse Fund dedicated to mobilizing salon professionals and others to fight the epidemic of domestic abuse in communities across the United States. CUT IT OUT builds awareness of domestic abuse and trains salon professionals to recognize warning signs and safely refer clients to local resources.

These motivated, innovative professionals give me hope!

Update to Animal Abuser Registries

Animal abuser registries– a brilliant (relatively) new development. Canada is not too far along in this area, but you can sign a petition directed at Prime Minister Stephen Harper. This petition recognizes the importance of such a registry– similar to the Sex Offender Registry. To sign this petition or to learn more about it, visit this link: http://www.thepetitionsite.com/35/animal-abuse-registry-in-canada/

The National Humane Education Society

Update: New states introducing animal abuser registry legislation include: Texas (HB 3747), Washington (HB 1786), and West Virginia (SB 468).

Legislation is currently pending for several states that would create animal abuser registries for those convicted of crimes involving animal abuse. Read our previous post for the full story.

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To Mothers: The Original Peacemakers

Interesting post

everyday gurus

I watched my wife give birth to both our sons. For birth alone, mothers should be honored throughout their lives.

I know a lot of my readers are mothers and grandmothers. I bow down to you and hope you enjoy this holiday in your honor. I know that many of you work, raise children, and blog which is like having three full-time jobs at once. You are my heroes and you inspire me to make the world a better place.

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